“Enjoying life is Sunnah,” Rahma says in her latest vlog—and the message is refreshingly practical. Rather than waiting for the “right” circumstances to feel happy, she focuses on building joy into her days, week after week. Over a few weeks of clips and reflections, the result is a highlight reel with a purpose: small moments that quietly improve your mood, your confidence, and even the way you experience ordinary routines.
This is not about grand reinvention. It’s about noticing tiny differences, scheduling what you’re looking forward to, and making space for self-care—at home and on the move. If you love travel, you’ll also appreciate Rahma’s encouragement to stay open to spontaneity, supported by an eSIM that helps you explore without worrying about getting connected.
How to expand your capacity for joy (without waiting for life to change)
Rahma’s core idea is beautifully simple: instead of letting days “happen” while you wait for circumstances to make you happy, bring the joys into your day. She explains that her summer has made her more intentional, and she shares the habits that helped her notice more good in the everyday.
1) Start with a slow, intentional morning
Rahma describes how some mornings she’s not looking for something “new,” but for a new way to experience what’s already around her. Even the mundane can feel different when you pay attention. For example, she reflects on walking the same park route and how it isn’t actually the same every day—light through trees, the wind, the people, and the seasons all shift.
Try this: choose one everyday route or routine and consciously notice one detail each time—light, colour, sound, or the mood of the air.
2) Plan solo dates as self-love
Solo time can feel intimidating at first, Rahma admits, but she frames it as a form of self-care and self-love. She’s been going out intentionally—journalling outside is one example she shares. The more you do it, the more natural it becomes, and the freedom can surprise you.
Solo date ideas from the vlog vibe:
- Journal outdoors for a set amount of time
- Try something new (a hobby, a language, or a class)
- Allow yourself to be “bad at it” while you learn
3) Travel-ready spontaneity—just stay sensible
When it comes to exploring, Rahma encourages being open to spontaneity: go somewhere unexpected, but not somewhere dangerous. The goal is to enjoy the journey rather than over-planning everything.
She adds that travel can feel easier when you don’t have to worry about connectivity—especially when you’re trying new places and might want maps, messages, or spontaneous recommendations.
4) Enjoy yourself with confidence using Holafly eSIM
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5) Get outside early—even if you’re “not a morning person”
Rahma jokes about not being a morning person, yet she says her routine changed after she started getting outside soon after waking. She references the idea that sunlight in the morning helps set your body clock and can improve mood, helping her wake up faster. Even short moments outside—no long walks required—can be enough to feel the difference.
Simple morning movement: try standing outside and letting the light do its work before you commit to your day.
6) Try movement you actually enjoy (paddle, for example)
Rahma shares that she tried paddle recently and had fun—she’s not a “sporty” person, but the experience opened her up to the idea that sports can support mood and health. She also mentions a paddle instructor’s advice: bring a positive attitude and be open to trying new things.
7) Prioritise self-care in small, repeatable ways
Taking care of yourself doesn’t have to be dramatic. Rahma speaks about slowing down—whether it’s taking 10 minutes for skincare or enjoying tea without rushing. She also mentions going for afternoon tea for the first time, calling it a lovely experience and highlighting the joy of tea selection alongside the familiar favourites.
Try a “5-minute version” of self-care today: skincare, tea, or simply reading without multitasking.
8) Journalling that helps you spot patterns (and change them)
Journalling is a major theme for Rahma. She says it’s changed her life, and she describes how her journal includes to-do lists, random thoughts, lessons learned, and daily ramblings. Over time, she noticed repeated behaviours—almost like having an honest conversation until she realises, “Rahma, you need to build a bridge and get over it.”
She also shows how journalling connects to creativity and hobbies. She shares examples of puzzle time and even painting, framing creativity as part of the bigger self-improvement picture.
9) Read more—without the pressure to speed through
Rahma’s approach to reading is calm and slow. She explains that reading more doesn’t mean consuming loads of books; it can mean reading slowly and even reading outside for peace. Her method is forgiving: one page, then two, then five—until the book is “digested.” She also shares that she recently read Out of the Star by Clarice Lispector and enjoyed it.
Make your next week feel better: a joy checklist
- Choose one slow morning ritual and notice tiny differences
- Schedule a solo date (even 30–60 minutes)
- Pick one “look forward to” activity to give your days momentum
- Move your body gently and try one new thing for fun
- Journal for pattern-spotting and kinder self-talk
- Read one page outside (or near a window) without rushing
Rahma ends her vlog with the intention behind the highlight reel: sharing little joys for memories, and for inspiration. If you’re looking for your next reset—whether that’s closer to home or on a spontaneous trip—start small. Add joy where you already are, and let it grow from there.
